I think about you all the time
What your name is
Are you kind?
Do you listen?
Do you care?
I can’t wait to meet you
But before we get there
Are you close with all your family
Do you leave when things get hard
I’ve got questions, learned my lesson
So whoever you are
Don’t be that guy that leaves me alone
That just cuts me down to say it’s a joke
Don’t be somebody I can’t even trust
Been there before and I’m not askin’ much
Don’t say I’m needy when I say I need you
Expect me to stay, when I should leave you
‘Cause I won’t be that girl
So don’t be that guy
Don’t make it a habit to make me the issue
That’s a mistake that I won’t make twice
Don’t say I love you
Then make me beg you for the bare minimum
I already know what that’s like
Don’t be that guy that leaves me alone
That just cuts me down to say it’s a joke
Don’t be somebody I can’t even trust
Been there before and I’m not askin’ much
Don’t say I’m needy when I say I need you
Expect me to stay, when I should leave you
‘Cause I won’t be that girl
So don’t be that guy
That I have to teach to treat me right
No. I’m not looking for another broken heart
Whoever you are
Don’t be that guy that leaves me alone
That just cuts me down to say it’s a joke
Don’t be somebody I can’t even trust
Been there before and I’m not askin’ much
Don’t say I’m needy when I say I need you
Expect me to stay, when I should leave you
‘Cause I won’t be that girl
So please don’t be that guy
Don’t be that guy, don’t be that guy, don’t be that guy
Exploring Emotional Honesty and Boundaries
“Don’t Be That Guy” by Avery Anna is a candid anthem for anyone determined to protect their heart while seeking genuine love. Through heartfelt questions and direct requests, the lyrics capture the vulnerability and hope of someone who has learned from past heartbreaks. Avery Anna addresses her future partner with honesty, setting clear expectations for respect, trust, and emotional support. The song stands out for its empowering message: refusing to settle for less than one deserves. It’s a gentle reminder that real love honors boundaries and mutual care. The repeated plea to “not be that guy” underscores a universal desire for kindness over cruelty and sincerity over games.
Song Credits
Artist: Avery Anna
Release Year: 2024