Okay
Mm-mm, I
I didn’t change my number
I only changed who I reply to
Laura said I should be nicer
But not to you
I love a “You mad at me?” text
Shoulda guessed
That you would think I was upset
You’re obsessed
Don’t take it out on me
I’m out of sympathy for you
Maybe you should leave
Before I get too mean
I didn’t change my number
I only changed who I believe in
You were easy on the eyes
But looks can be deceiving
I gotta’ work
I go to work
You don’t deserve to feel so hurt
You got a lot of fuckin’ nerve
I don’t deserve, so
Don’t take it out on me
I’m out of sympathy for you
Maybe you should leave
Before I get too mean
And take it out on you, and your best friend too
I should’ve left when Drew said, you were bad news
Breaking Free from a Toxic Connection
“I Didn’t Change My Number” by Billie Eilish is a bold statement about setting boundaries and standing up for oneself in the aftermath of a turbulent relationship. Through sharp, direct lines, Billie draws a line between herself and someone who’s been draining her energy. The lyrics reveal a refusal to continue accommodating toxic behavior, as she asserts agency over who she allows into her life and chooses to respond to. The song’s playful yet assertive tone captures the emotions of frustration, empowerment, and the relief that comes with finally prioritizing self-care over pleasing others.
Empowerment Through Honesty
Billie’s candid writing style shines as she addresses misunderstandings and misplaced guilt, making it clear that her decision to distance herself is about self-preservation, not malice. The clever wordplay and references to advice from friends highlight the importance of listening to one’s instincts and support system. Ultimately, the track is a relatable anthem for anyone learning to value their own well-being above the demands of others.
Song Credits
- Artist: Billie Eilish
- Songwriters: Billie Eilish, Finneas O’Connell
- Release Year: 2021
- Label: Darkroom, Interscope Records