I had a roof overhead
Had shoes on my feet
Sure I was fed, but no-one was there
When I was in need, yeah
So who am I now?
Who do you want me to be?
I can forgive you, but I won’t relieve you
I ain’t the same scared kid I used to be
I’m gonna live
I’m gonna survive
Don’t want the world to pass me by
I’m gonna dream
I ain’t gonna die
Thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna be loved
I wanna be loved
I found a picture
Our so-called family tree, yeah
I broke all the branches, looking for answers
Don’t you know that ain’t how it’s supposed to be
I’m gonna live
I’m gonna survive
Don’t want the world to pass me by
I’m gonna dream
I ain’t gonna die
Thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give
I’m ready to try
Willing to lay it on the line
I wanna be loved
I wanna be
I ain’t gonna cry
I don’t wanna scream
But I got so much left unsaid inside of me
I’m gonna live
I’m gonna survive
Don’t want the world to pass me by
I’m gonna dream
I ain’t gonna die
Thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give
I’m ready to try
Willing to lay it on the line
I wanna be loved
I wanna be
I wanna be loved
I wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved
I wanna be loved
Searching for Acceptance and Belonging
“I Want To Be Loved” by Bon Jovi delves deep into the universal longing for acceptance and meaningful connection. The lyrics paint a picture of someone who, despite having their basic needs met, feels emotionally neglected and isolated. The narrator reflects on a difficult past, marked by a lack of support and understanding, and expresses a powerful desire to break free from those wounds. The repetition of lines like “I wanna be loved” underscores a yearning not just for affection, but for validation and to be seen for who they truly are.
Transformation and Empowerment
Throughout the song, there is a strong sense of personal growth. The narrator resolves to shed their former vulnerability, vowing to live fully, pursue dreams, and no longer allow life to pass by. The song’s theme of resilience and self-worth resonates with listeners who have faced similar struggles, making it an anthem for anyone seeking hope and a new beginning.
Song Credits
Artist: Bon Jovi
Songwriters: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, Billy Falcon
Release Year: 2005
Label: Island Records