If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll outta bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it
‘Cause they’d stick up for me
If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
‘Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
‘Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it’s broken
So they’d think that I was sleepin’ alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
‘Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waitin’ for me to come home (to come home)
If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
‘Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted (wanted)
‘Cause he’s taken you for granted (granted)
And everything you had got destroyed
It’s a little too late for you to come back
Say it’s just a mistake
Think I’d forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong
But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand
Yeah, you don’t understand, oh
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
‘Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you’re just a boy
Exploring Empathy and Gender in “If I Were A Boy”
Beyoncé’s “If I Were A Boy” is a moving ballad that delves into themes of empathy, gender dynamics, and the complexity of relationships. Through poignant lyrics, the song imagines life from a man’s perspective, highlighting the emotional disconnect that can occur when one partner feels misunderstood or taken for granted. Beyoncé uses this narrative to underscore the importance of listening, respect, and emotional awareness within a relationship. Her powerful delivery amplifies the message, inviting listeners to reflect on their own actions and the impact they have on those they love.
Song Credits
Songwriters: BC Jean, Toby Gad
Release Year: 2008
Label: Columbia Records