I’ve loved you since I met you
I guess I always will
There’s something ’bout the way you smile
That makes my heart stand still
You say you love your freedom
I’d never tie you down
If you ever need these loving arms
I’ll be hangin’ ’round
If that’s the way you want it
That’s alright with me
If that’s the way you want it
That’s how it’s gonna be
I’ll be your Johnnie on the spot
Or Mr. Used To Be
If that’s the way you want it
That’s alright with me
I’m laid back, easy-going
I’m not the jealous kind
I won’t get in your business
If you won’t mess with mine
Just say the word forever
I’ll gladly sing that line
I’ll lay the world down at your feet
And fly you to the moon
If that’s the way you want it
That’s alright with me
If that’s the way you want it
That’s how it’s gonna be
I’ll be your Johnnie on the spot
Or Mr. Used To Be
If that’s the way you want it
That’s alright with me
Exploring Acceptance and Unconditional Love
“If That’s The Way You Want It” by Brooks & Dunn delves into the complexities of loving someone who values their independence. The narrator expresses a deep and enduring affection, yet remains remarkably understanding of their partner’s need for freedom. The lyrics reveal a willingness to accept any role in their loved one’s life—whether as a steadfast presence or simply a cherished memory. This easygoing attitude is underscored by promises of respect and space, offering love without restrictions or expectations. Ultimately, the song captures the bittersweet balance between desire and acceptance, highlighting the strength it takes to let someone go without resentment.
Song Credits
“If That’s The Way You Want It” is performed by Brooks & Dunn. The track was written by Ronnie Dunn and Don Cook, and it was released in 1993 by Arista Nashville.