If you see him
Tell him I wish him well
How am I doing?
Well, sometimes is hard to tell
I still miss him more than ever
But please dont say a word
If you see him
If you see him
If you see her
Tell her I’m doing fine
And if you want to
Say that I think of her from time to time
Ask her if she ever wonders
Where we both went wrong
If you see her
If you see her
I still want her
I still need him so
I dont know why we let each other go
If you see her
Tell her the lights still on for her
Nothing’s changed
Deep down the fire still burns for him
And even if it takes forever say I’ll still be here
If you see him
If you see her
If you see him
If you see her
Unspoken Longing and Missed Chances
“If You See Him / If You See Her” by Brooks & Dunn is a poignant duet that captures the lingering ache of love lost. Both voices, male and female, mirror each other’s heartache and vulnerability as they ask mutual friends to pass along tender messages to their former lovers. The lyrics reveal a deep desire for reconciliation and a struggle to move on, as both protagonists quietly hope the other still cares. Every line is filled with regret, longing, and the painful uncertainty that comes with separation. The repeated plea, “If you see him/her,” becomes a bittersweet refrain, highlighting the unspoken feelings that remain after a breakup.
Song Credits
Songwriters: Terry McBride, Jennifer Kimball, Tommy Lee James
Release Year: 1998
Label: Arista Nashville