Should I Laugh Or Cry – Lyrics
He stands towering over me beside my bed
Losing his head
Tells me I must take him seriously
Droning on the usual way
He’s such a clever guy
And I wonder should I laugh or cry
He’s (he’s) dressed (dressed) in the striped pajamas that I bought
Trousers too short
Gives (gives) me (me) of his small philosophy
Carries on the way he does
And me I get so tired
And I wonder should I laugh or cry
High and mighty his banner flies
A fool’s pride in his eyes
Standin’ there on his toes to grow in size
(All I see is)
All I see is a big balloon
Halfway up to the moon
He’s wrapped up in the warm and safe cocoon
Of an eternal lie
So should I laugh or cry
Strange (strange) how (how) dangerously indifferent I have grown
Cold as a stone
No (no) more (more) pain where there was pain before
Far away he rambles on, I feel my throat go dry
And I wonder should I laugh or cry
High and mighty his banner flies
A fool’s pride in his eyes
Standin’ there on his toes to grow in size
(All I see is)
All I see is a big balloon
Halfway up to the moon
He’s wrapped up in a warm and safe cocoon
Of an eternal lie
So should I laugh or cry
Lyric Analysis: A Portrait of Emotional Detachment
“Should I Laugh Or Cry” by ABBA delves into the emotional complexities of a strained relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone observing their partner’s self-importance and obliviousness. The recurring question—should the narrator laugh or cry—captures the mix of frustration, detachment, and disbelief at their partner’s behavior. The use of imagery, such as the “big balloon halfway up to the moon,” symbolizes the partner’s inflated ego and disconnect from reality. The narrator’s growing indifference and emotional numbness are central to the song, highlighting a transition from pain to apathy. ABBA’s storytelling masterfully balances subtle humor with melancholy, making this song resonate with anyone who’s experienced emotional exhaustion in a relationship.
Song Credits
Songwriters: Benny Andersson, Björn Ulvaeus
Release Year: 1981
Label: Polar Music