So I – Charli XCX

Always on my mind

Every day, every night

Your star burns so bright

Why did I push you away?

I was scared sometimes

You had a power like a lightning strike

When I’m on stage sometimes I lie

Say that I love singing these songs you left behind

And I know you always said, “It’s okay to cry”

So I know I can cry, I can cry

So I cry

Wish I’d tried to pull you closer

You pushed me hard made me focus

Your words, brutal, loving, truthful

I was petrified

You’re a hero and a human

Track was done I’d make excuses

You’d say, “Come on, stay for dinner”

I’d say, “No, I’m fine”

Now I really wish I’d stayed

Always on my mind

Every day, every night

Your star burns so bright

Why did I push you away?

I was scared sometimes

You had a power like a lightning strike

When I’m on stage sometimes I lie

Say that I love singing these songs you left behind

And I know you always said, “It’s okay to cry”

So I know I can cry, I can cry

So I cry

Guilty feelings keep me fractured

Got a phone call after Christmas

Didn’t know how I should act

I watched you dance online

Your sounds, your words live on endless

When I make songs I remember

Things you’d suggest – “Make it faster!”

Would you like this one?

Maybe just a little bit

Always on my mind

Every day, every night

Your star burns so bright

Why did I push you away?

I was scared sometimes

You had a power like a lightning strike

When I’m on stage sometimes I lie

Say that I love singing these songs you left behind

And I know you always said, “It’s okay to cry”

So I know I can cry, I can cry

So I cry

Loss, Memory, and Healing in “So I”

Charli XCX’s “So I” is a deeply personal and heartfelt ballad that explores the enduring impact of loss and the complexity of memory. The lyrics reflect on a close relationship with someone whose influence lingers long after their absence. The recurring lines about a star burning bright and the honest admissions of guilt and regret reveal the songwriter’s struggle with past decisions and unspoken emotions. The song’s chorus, anchored by the permission to “cry,” uncovers a journey toward emotional acceptance and healing. Through vivid imagery and confessional storytelling, Charli XCX captures the bittersweet experience of looking back, wishing for more time, and learning to let grief become a source of strength.

Song Credits

  • Artist: Charli XCX
  • Release Year: 2024