I thought you were just bein’ a girl
The kind that just wants to change me
And likes to fight all night long
Thought I had you figured out
I told myself she’s crazy
Man, was I ever wrong
The whole time you were just tryin’ to love me
I pushed, you pulled, should’ve just fell into you
But I did what I always do, I always do
You wanted to talk but I walked away
Didn’t want to hear what you had to say
Stupid me I can’t believe I never knew
The whole time you were just tryin’ to love me
I didn’t think those tears were real
I thought you were just tryin’ to play me
I just stood there and let ’em fall, ohh
You were just lovin’ me after all, ohhh
I pushed, you pulled, should’ve just fell into you
But I did what I always do, I always do
You wanted to talk but I walked away
Didn’t want to hear what you had to say
Stupid me I can’t believe I never knew
The whole time you were just tryin’ to love me
You wanted to talk but I walked away
Didn’t want to hear what you had to say
Stupid me I can’t believe I never knew, I never knew
The whole time you were just tryin’
The whole time you were just tryin’ to love me
Tryin’ to love me
Understanding the Honesty in ‘Tryin’ To Love Me’
Jason Aldean’s “Tryin’ To Love Me” eloquently captures the regret and realization that often come too late in relationships. The narrator reflects on his mistaken perceptions and defensive reactions, admitting he misread his partner’s intentions. While he thought she was trying to change him or create drama, in reality, she was simply trying to love him through his walls. The poignant repetition of missed opportunities and ignored emotions highlights the universal struggle of vulnerability. Aldean’s relatable storytelling evokes empathy for anyone who’s pushed away genuine love out of fear or misunderstanding.
Song Credits
- Artist: Jason Aldean